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Down with love? The Russian anti-Valentine backlash

by Moscow News staff at 11/02/2011 17:10

 

The Russian Orthodox church has long been concerned about the growing popularity of Valentine’s Day, and in particular its promotion of “irresponsibility”.

Archpriest Vsevolod Chaplin, head of the Synodal Department for Church and Society, warned that romanticizing love outside of marriage could only “lead to trouble”, and backed the recent decision of authorities in Belgorod to ban official events for the holiday.

“Unfortunately the spiritual basis of this holiday implies irresponsibility,” Chaplin told The Moscow News. “Love should be linked to family and faithfulness. This is why the Russian Orthodox Church supports the day of family love and faithfulness [on July 8].”

And elsewhere in Russia church members are planning a “Valentine, farewell” event in protest at what they see as a debased commercial ritual which carries the name of a Christian saint but offers little of the true spirit of the martyred Valentine.

 

Readers’ thoughts

Many Moscow News readers sympathized with the anti-Valentine lobby, though for most it was a question of commercialism more than spiritualism.

And some felt it was another blow to the preservation of Russia’s traditions in a more global world.

 

What about Ivan Kupala?

“It’s not a real holiday. If you’re in a relationship every day is the day for your love, so why make such a fuss?

“It’s nothing more than a clever commercial strategy, and it doesn’t fit into Russian culture. We have our own traditional holidays, but so few people celebrate Ivan Kupala’s day, for example.

“We keep forgetting where we came from and who we are.”

Tatiana Sukhoparova

 

Leave it to the Americans

“I’ve never celebrated it as it’s not a real holiday in Russia. It’s America, so I don’t think of it as my own. Let Americans celebrate it, not us!”

Anna Bogoslovskaya

 

Insulting

“It is an insult to my intelligence, just another big marketing tool designed by people who want us to spend more money.

“There is nothing to it besides money, and it is not because I am bitter about love - I am happily married and both my husband and I detest Feb. 14.

Victoria Nazarenko

 

What’s the point?

“I don’t think this is a proper holiday and I don’t understand what it’s all about. What is it really for, anyway?”

Dmitry Chaykovsky

 

Schoolboy error

“It’s popular, but I don’t really like it. It’s unpleasant when you have to meet someone’s expectations and be obliged to do something.

“Then there is all the marketing and bustle around it, and crowds of people everywhere.

“It was interesting when we were at school, but not now.”

Igor Samoilov

 

Chocs away!

“Among my friends we call it Day of Sex for Chocolate. It's a cheesy holiday.”

Alexei Seleznyov

 

Under pressure

“I don’t like it. Not in Russia, not anywhere else. On its eve it always feels like you have to give a report to someone - on what you achieved and how does your life go. Like some English newspaper wrote, you can't even be upset or angry on the day, because if you're single, everyone will pity you for being miserable, and if you date someone, everyone will think you had a fight. Silly holiday when you are not allowed to have free will or emotions.”

Natalia Sokolova

 

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  • MarcT: St. Valentine's Day
    11/02/2011, 20:48
    I agree that Valentine's Day has become immoral in the West, but I also think that our Russian Orthodox Church should be going to the roots of this popular cultural holiday and using them to plant firmer foundations for the family instead of creating a modernistic new holiday 'of the family and this and that.' St. Valentine, whose day the 14/27 February is, was a priest martyred under the pagan Romans for encouraging Christian soldiers to marry their girlfriends despite the imperial prohibition of this. This is a good and very pro-family thing! Instead of condemning Valentine's Day the Church should celebrate it properly, with a Vigil and Liturgy for St. Valentine and then a moleben to St. Valentine for the strengthening of marriage and the family in Russia and throughout the world.


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